I've experienced enough discussion of this that I feel the need to make an entry about it.
So first, gender.
To me, we are people in flesh cans. To me, gender (and all things associated with it) is only an abstract, societal construct that people put stock in because it's ingrained. If you wish to change your flesh can, if you are not comfortable with yours, that's up to you.
I am physically male, but I don't have a gender identity. I am not agender. I try, sometimes, to think of myself in terms of gender, and the entire concept is alien. "Agender" means that I am without gender. It puts me in a category separate from other, gendered categ